On the importance of bragging
In my view, there are two very important times in your life to brag, when job hunting and when proposing marriage. [Yes, women propose marriage, too.] You rarely see career advice for executives that covers their mental outlook as they look for a job. But self confidence is the biggest asset a candidate can have.
Bragging is an important part of a job search. It keeps your confidence high and it communicates to others why they should support your job search efforts. If you need to learn to toot your own horn, read Peggy Kraus’s book”Brag.”
My clients are advised to keep a brag journal. At the end of each week, they can read it to a loved one. Reading it when spirits flag is another good use. And a quick read before bedtime helps you get out of bed the next morning to see what new entry is in store.
And if you are employed, a brag journal helps you remember your triumphs and how you got there; a real asset when it is time to create a new resume.
But mostly, a brag journal is a great tool for keeping your spirits up. You are reminded you are no less competent just because the financial or employment worlds are collapsing. You are no less talented when jobs are scarce.
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